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How do I tell my partner about gambling debt?

The short answer

Money stress after gambling can feel crushing, but there is a way through. The first rule is simple: don't gamble or borrow to win it back. Protect the essentials first, add barriers between you and your money, and bring one trusted person into the picture.

Right now

  • 1Do not borrow or gamble to win back what you lost.
  • 2Turn on gambling blocks in your banking app if offered.
  • 3List what must be paid first: housing, food, utilities, medicine, children.

Next 24 hours

  • 1Remove saved cards from every gambling account.
  • 2Call your bank and ask about gambling transaction blocks.
  • 3Tell one trusted person the real numbers.

This week

  • 1Build a simple budget with a trusted person.
  • 2Contact a nonprofit credit counselor about your debt.
  • 3Set up banking alerts and spending limits.

When to get immediate help

If you're thinking about harming yourself, feel unable to stay safe, are considering stealing to fund gambling, or feel completely overwhelmed, get help now. In the U.S. and Canada, call or text 988. If there's immediate danger, call 911.

One question to ask yourself

What is the biggest risk tonight: access to money, access to betting apps, being alone, watching sports, or fear of telling someone? Your answer can be your first step.

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